Cate Mungai

Someone very wise once told me " Trust but verify". For a while now, that's exactly what I've been doing. You just can't go trusting everyone. Nowadays, people are not to be trusted. They will betray you without a blink of an eye. Trust is something one have to gain. You have to gain trust from a person. Sometimes, people fake it, and that's why you have to verify. Just because someone else said it, it doesn't necessarily mean it's true. You have to investigate for yourself and get the exact information. In the business world, you cannot entrust your employees with some sensitive information. They can betray you any minute. That's very simple. A competitor will only double the amount of money he or she has been earning in your company. A competitor will do anything just to get that piece of information that will help them destroy you. After the employee, gives out your secret, then everything's done for you. You're likely to : **Loo...

Sometimes we lie to to save ourselves and prevent condemnation and critism. I once lied about something that made me guilty for quite sometime. Not that I could be punished or anything but I just feared the consequences. I can lie at that particular time but I'll eventually tell the truth. Up to now, I've never said anything about it but I'm planning on it very soon. It was way back at home when I was chasing a little chicken in our compound. The little chicken had strayed outside and I wanted inside it's little house. I had a stick in hand and I was trying very hard for it to get inside. But the chicken had other plans. I ran round in circles but I couldn't catch it. As time went by, I was getting tired.As I was about to grab it, it ran again. I happened to stab it with the stick. The chicken fell and begun doing something with it's wings. It began flapping it's wings. I didn't know what was wrong with it. After sometime, the chicken died and I ...

Beauty captures the eye but good manners capture the heart. Most young men, prefer beauty to good behaviors. Some even say that they'll tame those behaviors to ensure that they are properly behaved. They say that as long a as they are beautiful, the rest is good. There are those girls who hate themselves thinking that they are ugly and nobody can love them. It's true sometimes, but I believe nobody is ugly. Everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. She might be going through denial and stress herself thinking that no one loves her. But there's no need to stress oneself because of such circumstances. I believe that everyone has a person who is meant to spend the rest of their lives with. Although this may not happen always. While a girl is thinking that she's not loved, there's a man somewhere who's in head over heels in love with her. It doesn't matter how you are, or how you look like, someone somewhere loves you, just the way you are. Love yours...

When I talk about early marriages, believe me it's getting married at an early age. Some get married as early as they are 16 years old. Dependency on the other hand is depending on a person to support you in everything you do. This happens when these young girls get married at an early age. Early marriages can be voluntary and involuntary at times. Some choose to get married because of lack of another option. Some reasons that can make little girls get married early is because of ; ✔Losing hope A young person has dreams and visitors he or she wants to fulfill in life. If maybe the person wants to go to school to further their education and it's not possible, they give up. They end up choosing marriage as the only option. ✔ When there's no other option left. It's not always possible to get what you want everytime. Things can go on wrong and go the way you didn't expect them to. ✔ Early pregnancies This is the most that affects our young girls. Boys and Girls...

Dilemma is being in a situation whereby you are in two complicated situations. In most cases, these situations are important and they need your attention. At the end of the day, you'll have to make a choice between two issues. Being in a dilemma is very tempting and stressing also. You cannot decide which to go for first without making a mistake. But the fact is that, •At the end of the day, you'll have to make a choice. ✔You have to choose wisely. If not, it may affect your life. ✔If you make the wrong choic e, it might affect your work and maybe your future. Before making any decisions, weigh between them. Choose the one which is of more importance than the others.

The present is not the past and it is not the future. The present is the present moment. The pres ent is right now. You might have had difficulties in your work and you're Stressed by your work. As an empl oyee, you might not enjoy your life and work as much as you used to. When you're fully engaged in what you are doing, your mind doesn't wander. You enjoy life. And you're happier and more effec tive. You are intent only on what is happening at that moment, that focus and concentr ation leads to success. Do not dwell in the past. If you made a mistake in the past, learn from it and just move on. People tend to concentrate so much on what happened in the past, that they refuse to let it go. Only when you let it go, that's only when you'll progress. I know it's hard to forget the past if you haven't learned from it. As soon as you learn and let go, you improve yourself and you make yourself better. Even in the most difficult situations, when you...